A couple who held hands at breakfast every morning even after 70 years of marriage have died 15 hours apart.
Helen Felumlee, of Nashport, died at 92 on April 12. Her husband, 91-year-old Kenneth Felumlee, died the next morning.
The couple's eight children say the two had been inseparable since
meeting as teenagers, once sharing the bottom of a bunk bed on a ferry
rather than sleeping one night apart.
They remained deeply in love until the very end, even eating breakfast
together while holding hands, said their daughter, Linda Cody.
"We knew when one went, the other was going to go," she said.
According to Cody, about 12 hours after Helen died, Kenneth looked at
his children and said, "Mom's dead." He quickly began to fade and was
surrounded by 24 of his closest family members and friends when he died
the next morning.
"He was ready," Cody said. "He just didn't want to leave her here by herself."
Son Dick Felumlee said his parents died of old age, surrounded by family.
"At Dad's bed we were singing his favorite hymns, reading scriptures and
praying with him," he told The Associated Press in an email. "It was a
going away party, and we know he loved it."
The pair had known each other for several years when they eloped in
Newport, Ky., across the Ohio River from Cincinnati, on Feb. 20, 1944.
At two days shy of his 21st birthday, Kenneth — who went by Kenny — was
too young to marry in Ohio.
"He couldn't wait," son Jim Felumlee said.
Kenneth worked as a railroad car inspector and mechanic before becoming a
mail carrier for the Nashport Post Office. He was active in his
Nashport-Irville United Methodist Church as a Sunday school teacher.
Helen stayed at home, not only cooking and cleaning for her own family
but also for other families in need in the area. She taught Sunday
school, too, but was known more for her greeting card ministry, sending
cards for birthdays, sympathy and the holidays to everyone in her
community, each with a personal note inside.
"She kept Hallmark in business," daughter-in-law Debbie Felumlee joked.
When Kenneth retired in 1983 and the children began to leave the house,
the Felumlees began to explore their love of travel, visiting almost all
50 states by bus.
"He didn't want to fly anywhere because you couldn't see anything as you were going," Jim Felumlee said.
Although both experienced declining health in recent years, Cody said, each tried to stay strong for the other.
"That's what kept them going," she said.
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